As the years have gone by I have become increasingly disillusioned with Christmas. Don’t get me wrong, I love the idea of Christmas, a day set aside to commemorate the birth of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. I also love the idea of commemorating his birth by giving gifts to those we love, because Christ gave us many gifts, the greatest being eternal life. It seems to me (and I am talking in general here, not about a specific person) that increasingly we are giving lip service to the idea of gift giving and caring for the poor on Christmas and we are focusing more and more on GETTING. My family is no exception. I find that my children talk more of gifts and Santa and what they want from Santa than Christ and His birth and His gifts. I blame myself, I have created this, I love having an excuse to be extravagant in my gift giving (via Santa) with my children. I over the years have focused on the gifts more than true service and Christ centered worship.
Last Christmas, instead of the kids giving gifts to each other we had service ornaments. Each child drew a name and for the month of December they were to do service for the person they drew and add a special ornament to the tree every time a service was preformed. It went ok, especially for the first few days, they it kind of petered out and was forgotten.
So this year I thought I would mix it up a little.
We now have a service tree.
(this is a terrible picture, the lighting in my living room is not good)
On slips of paper I wrote down the name of a person, or a type of person (example: teacher, neighbor, friend) and put them all in an envelope. Every morning at devotional we draw a slip and for that day we all do a service for that particular person. I am thinking this will help us stay focused and do more service. Once that service had been done, and approved by a parent, an ornament is added to the tree.
I hope this helps my children become more service oriented.
As for how we celebrate Christmas, I think things are going to change around here in the next few years. I would like Christmas to become a Holy day of worship. First to go just might be Santa, I wonder why I need some stand in mythical man to give my children gifts? I know a lot of people say he (Santa) represents Christ, to that I ask: why do we need some stand in mythical man for Christ when we have the real thing?
How to you center your family on Christ during the Christmas season?