Training them up right

I firmly believe in training or teaching my son to grow up to be a man. I want him to be able to provide for a family, do hard physical labor, maintain car and houses. In general, I want him to be a manly man.

However

There are exceptions

I think my daughters should know how to mow a lawn and take care of finances.

On that same token, I think my boy should be able to help around the house.

And it is never to early to teach him the art of laundry.

Here is my boy. He is saying “Ooooo, Ooooo”
that is his favorite word.


“Oooo Ooooo wassat” (“whats that”….his second favorite word)


“Now son, that is a washing machine, a pretty shiny new one.”


“See all the clothes go round and round…..”

(at this moment I would like to take second and say a prayer of thanks, that I am in my warm house watching my laundry being cleaned, instead of down at the lake banging them against a rock)



“Whoa, stay focused buddy…focus, focus….I have more to teach you….”








And this is where he makes a quick exit……




So much for that lesson!

The Education of My Daughters

My daughters are being educated. They go to school, get good grades, they can read and write and do math. Is that enough? They will go through public education, and possibly higher education, and by the worlds standards they will be “well educated”. Is that enough; is a good college education enough? It is highly valued, highly esteemed, and highly sought after, but is it enough? Is it even the best? We know what the world values, but what does God value? What type of education would he have us give to our daughters? I know the Lord Values education, he wants us to be well educated, and it is a good thing…but is it the best? Our daughters need to be educated in the art of keeping a home. Our schools have been washed clean of any gender specific instruction. They no longer teach our girls how to cook, clean and sew. I think that is entirely up to me. I need to teach my daughters how to be a wife and mother. It is so much easier to shoo them away when I am cooking, I am quicker and much more efficient on my own, but how does that teach my girls? It doesn’t. I think it is important that they know the basics, they need to be able to cook from scratch (it is cheaper and healthier) they need to be able to clean, organize, care for children and do basic sewing. They need to be able to run a home. They need to be able to make a home. They need to understand that no matter what the “world” says the womanly art of homemaking is a valuable and precious skill. They will learn these things at my side. They will not only learn the mechanics of these skills, they will learn to love them, and value them, and they will learn the importance of these skills. This means I need to take a deep breath, be patient, and dig deep on those trying days. I need to remember the big picture.